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Brain Lunging?

Other ways to control your grey matter


Do you ever wish you could lunge your brain to make it quieter and more cooperative?

Good news: there is a way.

Sport and life come with emotions and sometimes they are strong and interfering. So we must learn to distinguish between feelings and actions. So often we hear people say, “I got so angry I had to do it.” Do not buy into this. You always have a choice about how to respond to your emotional cues. That’s just what they are—signals or information.

So if you find yourself feeling angry while riding one day, make a conscious effort remind yourself of what you are trying to do in that moment. Don’t let your emotions “take over” and dictate your actions.

Just as you would not allow a fresh horse to misbehave, do not let yourself do the same when in the grip of a feeling. If your horse was acting fresh and goofy, you would lead him firmly back toward his work, and this is what you need to do with yourself too.

In marital arts, this concept is sometimes referred to as “going back to the form.”

A marital artist may have things come up—emotions, thoughts and other distractions—but he knows his job is to get back to his form, or get back to his job. Same with you, you can even experiment with using the key phrase “back to form” as a cue to refocusing your energy.

You want your focus to be on your task, not your emotional state.

The second strategy you may want to employ at times is simply to take a time out. This is called damage control.

One of the toughest consequences of our emotions is the impact they can have on our normal training strategies. You may be very clear about what you need to do, like how to deliver an aid correctly, but this goal can be thwarted by the experience of an intense emotion.

People react in a number of ways to strong feelings but here is a common denominator: they change your ride.

So sometimes it’s okay to just take a break. Take a few deep breaths and clear your head. With practice, you can drop intensity levels within a few minutes. The goal is to restore your physiological system back to a place where productivity is possible. Where your brain can re-engage and begin to assist you in solving whatever issue you find yourself with.

A routine for dealing with difficult emotions can be summarized like this:

Accept: I feel what I feel because I care about what I’m doing. That is okay. I am going to turn this emotion into a signal to change something up. Try blowing it out (big breath out) as you accept, just as your horse does.

Assess: Name the feeling, begin to move in the direction of problem solving. Come back to your original goal or identify a new focus. Don’t be afraid to change things up, even for a little while.

Commit: Here a new pathway of thinking is identified and executed.


april clayAbout the Author

April Clay is a rider and sports psychologist in Calgary, Alberta. Want to learn more about show preparation and mental toughness? Check out the Resilient Rider Online Course and the Confidence Factor at www.outofyourmindcourses.com.