The dating scene is hard. Very hard. And while there are lots of fish out in that sea, the not-so-rare equestrian girl is a unique species. It takes a special, patient guy who’s not part of the horse world to accept the fact he can’t get into the truck because her tack is in the front seat. And the floor. And the back seat. Did we mention patience?

If you’re thinking about cohabiting with one of these girls (bless you), here are some things you should know.